#1,081: Sometimes, Dreams Do Come True - Hopefully, This Isn't One of Them
Itamar Ben-Gvir’s “Golden Noose”
(A note about this week’s blog: The genesis of this essay begins with my friend and student, Nate W. Now nearly 39 years old, I was (and still am) Nate’s rabbi and mentor; I trained him for his bar mitzvah more than a quarter century ago. After college, Nate’s career took him to Israel, Eastern Europe and, for the past 14 years, Germany. Every Sunday for as long as I can remember, we spend an hour or so Facetiming. We learn Torah together, Nate asks innumerable questions about Jewish tradition, customs and history, and we delve into the world of ethics and politics - mostly American and Israeli. About 2 weeks ago, Nate asked me what I thought about the “golden noose” lapel pin that Israeli Minister Bin Gvir and many of his ultra nationalist colleagues wear in the Knesset. After answering that I really didn’t know what he was referring to, I promised that I would check it out. Imagine my surprise when I discovered that the American media really had not reported on Bin Gvir. And so, I did my research - from Israeli and European (mostly French) sources. Thanks, Nate, for stimulating my curiosity. Talk to you this coming Sunday!
In the United States, we have a monstrosity of a Defense Secretary named Pete Hegseth. He is both a racist and grossly misogynistic, as well as ill-equipped for his job and an international embarrassment. Just yesterday (June 6, 2026), in a speech meant to commemorate the 82nd anniversary of Allied forces storming the beaches of Normandy (to liberate Nazi-occupied Europe in 1944), he instead criticised European nations over migration for allowing what he described as an "invasion" on their shores. So much is this man - and what he represents - reviled by our former allies, that he was actually "disinvited” (non merci) by the residents of nearby Langrune-sur-Mer, who said his "warlike views" were unwelcome in their village, and questioned his commitment to "democratic values". It turns out that after making a speech at the American military cemetery in Colleville-sur-Mer (“Omaha Beach”), he conspicuously skipped the afternoon’s main international ceremony. For les gens de Colleville-sur-Mer, it was un rêve devenu réalité (“a dream come true”).
Secretary Hegseth’s counterpart in Israel is the Jewish State’s השר לביטחון לא (Minister of National Security), Itamar Bin Gvir - generally called by his hyphenated last name (Bin-Gvir). Like Pete Hegseth, Ben-Gvir is a far-right extremist. Like Hegseth, he is an ardent nationalist. Where Hegseth is a member of the Communion of Reformed Evangelical Churches, which advocates Christian Nationalism (that frequently frames military actions in religious terms), Bin-Gvir is an Orthodox Jewish politician who leads Israel’s religious Zionist movement. He heads the far-right עוצמה יהודית (Otzma Yehudit), which translates as either “Jewish Strength” or “Jewish Power.” Bin-Gvir’s political godfather is the late ultra-nationalist Rabbi Meir Kahane, who was assassinated at age 58 in 1990.
Bin-Givir: Israel’s Minister of National Security
Kahane espoused a virulently racist ideology. During his life, he founded both a violent Jewish extremist movement and a fascist political party in Israel. Kahane’s Jewish Defense League murdered dozens of people. It injured hundreds of others in numerous violent attacks against Palestinians, Americans, and others in Israel, the occupied Palestinian territories, and the United States itself. His Israeli political party, כך (kach, that’s Hebrew for “Thus!”), was, during his lifetime, fairly marginal in Israeli politics. However, decades after his assassination in New York, he remains an inspiration for Jewish extremists, and his racist ideas are, frightfully, far more mainstream. During the 2019 and 2021 Israeli election campaigns, Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu and his Likud party entered into political agreements with Kahane’s followers in the religious Zionist movement to help elect them to the Knesset (the Israeli parliament), prompting condemnation even from some of Israel’s staunchest supporters. In December 2022, Bin-Gvir became Minister of National Security with expanded powers under Netanyahu. And ever since, he has exercised total control of Israel’s police and its paramilitary border security in the occupied Palestinian West Bank.
Pete Hegsseth at Princeton
Getting back to similarities between Hegseth and Bin-Gvir, we turn our attention to the military. Hegseth was a longtime member of the National Guard; he submitted his resignation after a fellow guardsman flagged him as an “insider threat” in 2021. This resulted in his removal from the National Guard security mission for President Joe Biden’s inauguration on January 20, 2021. The problem arose because of concerns over his tattoos, specifically one bearing the Latin phrase Deus Vult (“G-d wills it”), which had been appropriated by white extremist groups. In the case of Bin-Gvir, he was exempted from mandatory service in the Israeli Defense Forces (IDF) due to his extreme right-wing views and affiliation with the outlawed Kach party. He first came to infamy as a teenager when he stole the Cadillac emblem from the car of Israeli PM Yitzhak Rabin. Hegseth also came to public awareness as a teenager, when, as publisher of the Princeton Tory, a deeply conservative student newspaper at Princeton University, he espoused intolerance of “gays, feminists, and atheists,” and praised conservatives’ “tangible solutions for societal ills.” In one long article, he wrote: “By advocating government support of the traditional family unit, a return of the acceptability of the ‘homemaker’ vocation, freedom from oppressive government oversight, moral responsibility, and the revival of religious faith, conservatives provide a working blueprint for a free and prosperous future.” That particular article earned an immediate response from the college president.
About a month ago, Bin Gvir’s wife, Alala, threw him a 50th birthday party. It was a controversial affair, both for its guest list and for its centerpieces - birthday cakes for her ultranationalist husband with golden nooses and guns. On the guest list were fellow senior politicians, far-right activists, and members of the police General Command Staff. Among the far-figures were Yoav Eliasi, the prominent rapper and far-right political activist known as הצל (Ha-Tzel, “The Shadow”), who received an honorary police rank in 2024; Communications Minister Shlomo Karhi and Bentzi Gopstein, an acolyte of the late Rabbi Kahane who runs a group opposing intermarriage.
A photo posted on Instagram by Bin-Gvir himself showed that his wife presented him with a large three-tier cake, topped with a golden noose — a reference to the controversial law mandating the death penalty for Palestinian terrorists, something which Bin-Gvir and his Otzma Yehudit party have long championed. (Legislation to that effect was passed by the Knesset in this past March.) A smaller cake carried the inscription Hebrew לפעמום, חלומות מתגשים (lifamim, chalomot mitgashim, meaning “Sometimes, dreams do come true.” This was in obvious reference to the bill approving executions.
In its 78-year history, only 2 people have been legally executed by the state of Israel: Meir Tobianski in 1948 and Adolf Eichmann in 1962. While the death penalty is technically legal for crimes such as treason, genocide, and crimes against humanity, it has not been used since 1962. This new death penalty legislation violates Israel’s basic law. (n.b. Please note that less than a year after his execution, Toblanski was exonerated.
Getting back to the party, the bottom layer of the cake featured two guns pointing at a map of Israel, with Gaza and the West Bank included, representing his divisive firearm policies, which have been greatly loosened during his tenure. The smaller cake - the one presented to the Minister by Mrs. Bin-Gvir, was adorned with the Hebrew expression לפעמום, חלומות מתגשים (lifamim, cholomot mitgashim - “Sometimes, dreams come true”). This, of course, refers to Bin-Gvir’s dream of instituting universal execution for all Palestinians and those he believes are anti-Zionists. Here in the United States, we have many hardcore MAGAites who firmly believe that anyone who does not follow in lockstep with POTUS’ programs, whether it be deportations, the war in Iran, the $1 billion ballroom, or a host of other measures, is simply and purely not a patriotic American.
I myself, regardless of Netanyahu, Ben-Gvir, IT, or his henchmen, firmly believe I am both a Zionist when it comes to Israel, and a patriot when it comes to America. The fact that I am by no means in lockstep with the way the current Israeli government is dealing with the Palestinians in Gaza, or the way the regime deals with economics, foreign policy, or a whole host of social/cultural issues, in no way makes me an antisemite or a traitor.
I myself have been a Zionist ever since I first learned the term more than 70 years ago. The fact that I am a practicing Jew, can read, speak, and understand Hebrew with enough proficiency to be able to read Israeli newspapers, watch Israeli movies, and laugh at the jokes of Israeli comedians, should firmly establish my תום לב (tom lev, which is Hebrew for the Latin bona fides). I have lived in Israel, attended Rabbinic School in Jerusalem, and am well-versed in Jewish history from אברהם אבינו (“Our father Abraham”) to גל גדות, (the actress Gal Gadot).
So far as being a “paatriotic American“: by age 12, I had already volunteered for my first presidential campaign (JFK); I got my first job on Capitol Hill as an intern/writer for United States Senator Mike Gravel shortly before my 20th birthday; I managed my first Congressional campaign (in Calfornia’s old 12th Congressional District) by age 24, and served as a vetted/officially approved campaign surrogate for Barack Obama, Hillary Clinton and Joe Biden from 2008-2020. And somehow, I am not patriotic enough for the likes of Trump, Hegseth, Steven Miller, and the rest of the gang.
Let Netanyahu and Bin-Gvir, Trump, and Hegseth have their irrational dreams. Let them tar those who don’t agree with their personal nightmares. Let’s just make sure that through our actions and our energy, our courage and our strength, we can keep the worst of their fables and concoctions from ever coming true.
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